The late great American entrepreneur, author and motivational speaker Jim Rohn said, “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person you become.” Think about that quote for a moment.
I believe Rohn is right. I believe his words are not only true for business success but also for relationship success. What if we stopped trying to find the perfect job, career or life partner and we seriously worked on becoming the best version of ourselves. I believe we would become a magnet to better opportunities than we ever thought possible. It is easy to put the cart in front of the horse. It seems natural to go after the success we desire. Don’t do it. Work on you and see if better doors don’t open wide for you to enter.